Only one in five Catholics attends Mass. One guy comments, "I don't think you're going to die and go to heaven and hear, 'Frank, you didn't go to church for 15 years.'" Hmmm: Why not? If you can't spend regular time listening to the Gospel being preached, worshipping and meeting together, and participating in the Eucharist, what makes you think you have enough of a relationship with the Lord for Him to receive you into heaven? That's a little like not spending time with your wife for 15 years and expecting to have much of a marriage left.
Another said he "avoids the heavy-handed pronouncements from the pulpit that he says turn off today's Catholics." Not that I'm saying this is right, but when was the last time you heard a "heavy-handed pronouncement" from the pulpit? (I suspect he is speaking metaphorically, i.e., pronouncements from the Church itself, not necessary in the parish on Sunday.)
I have a personal prayer request to ask of you.