I was checking out my latest album from mercyme (an Evangelical Protestant band) when I saw a blurb in the album insert about a courageous youth who gave his life in the service of the Gospel. Strangely, the website dedicated to him is called www.prayforbj.com. I stopped in my tracks and scratched my head with a quizzical expression on my face. I remembered all the Evangelical songs I'd run across that talk about prayer in the context of death. One says:
I pull over to the side of the road and
I watch the cars pass me bye
The headlights and the black limousine
Tell me someone is saying goodbye
I bow my head and I whisper a prayer
For the comfort the broken hearts...
See as a Catholic this always struck me ... I don't know, as so wrong. Every time I hear the second to last line, emotionally I'm expecting prayer for the dead person, but then in the next line my heart is snapped back as the dead person isn't even mentioned. Ever hear that sound effect that imitates a record needle being abruptly removed during playback? "Oh George, I love you! Denise, I am yours, I will always RRRRIIIIPPPP". That's how it feels to me.
Anyway the reasons why Protestants do not pray for the dead are clear to me (though I am fully convinced that one need not believe in purgatory to pray for the dead, the Orthodox do). It just feels funny to me to pray for everyone involved in a funeral except for the person who died!
So that is why I was so startled to see this Evangelical website for a dead person which was entitled "Pray for BJ". After some thought I concluded that what must have happened is they got the domain while he was sick and just kept it. It was a nice thought though to think that some Evangelicals believe in prayer for the dead. Although his death was rapid enough and long enough ago (18 months) that it tantalizing to think that just maybe ...
Pray for BJ. Even now. Even if you believe he is in heaven, you can pray that he grow closer to God. Can you go wrong doing that?